Stop Wasting...
my precious time! What happened to people and politeness in this world? No-one seems to be courteous anymore these days. Is this because I'm getting older and I start to notice? Hold on for a moment, I wasn't raised like that: I was taught to be well-mannered and polite and I am most of the time... Unless something starts to piss me off: what's wrong with sending someone a simple email just to let them know that you won't be needing their service anymore... Isn't that a normal thing to do? Especially after I was told to continue the project once recovered, which I did... I don't get this. I really don't.
Well perhaps I do, I should stop wasting my time on petty jobs and focus on the more important ones instead, those who pay me eight times as much per day as the petty ones. No more negotiations but a fixed price, no more nagging, all they'll ask me to do is: deliver. They are willing to pay good money because they know that they will get quality and experience in return and they won't settle for less. And so should I... no more 'assignments' from those who are not willing to pay for quality, if they want cheap deals they should search the internet. I'm sure there is a 15-year-old out there who needs some pocket money.
The last few weeks of December I will be working on my own things: I have to adjust my online portfolio according to what the recruitment agency would like to present to the client. And I will also be updating my logo, business card and letterhead/stationery. I already started with a redesign of my B. She is less Photoshop and more cartoon-like... I contacted the agency today and they will start looking at where they can send me: yes! I want to get my UK business started. So January is going to be an exciting month and I'm really, really looking forward to it.
I got sidetracked for a moment but I'm glad I'm looking ahead again!
Tess,
Managing Director
ps I had blood tests done on Monday last week and a chat with the consultant on Tuesday, all seems to be good again, so I'm clear. I realise I have been really lucky, I found a medical article online that mentions several cases in the UK of people who died of this herbal treatment. Guess it wasn't my time yet: I still have a quest to fulfill: seeing someone in the US...
Hi Tess!
You know, I have these type of clients too. They really kinda take advantage of your services.
At some point, you do exactly as you've done and feel confident enough to know you are WORTH so much more. ;)
Good rant dear! I hope the business is going awesome!
Mon
Hello Monica,
glad to hear I'm not the only one having to deal with this, kinda makes it less annoying *grin* I just don't understand the kind of behaviour but I guess you're right about the fact that they take advantage of you, so they probably don't care...
I will learn ;) and thank you for your support dear friend!
Hello Lady,
Here's my theory on this. It's not that they don't *care* so to speak. I find that the issue is *We Care*. It's our personal business. It wouldn't be such a hit to us if we were working behind a desk for someone else and a client was renegotiating, undercutting... etc. etc.
Fact is, when you own your own business - we get to work on not taking things personally. WHICH is extremely difficult because it's the nature of the thing - it's our PERSONAL business. ;)
Sometimes when I get a client trying to *put me in harms way* $$$ wise, or even time wise - I put on my other hat. Kinda, that I'm working for a big company and the rules are, no cost adjustments. I really try to get the personal out of it or I'll get angry.
Now, 1-1/2 years into owning my own business I am very upfront and matter of fact. If it's not going to work for me, I'll professionally let them know. Lately, I haven't had the issue. Knock on wood.
Hugs Tess! You are doing great!
Love and Light,
Mon
Hi! I know what you mean. I hate when people just ignore my e-mails. Even friends! I have just sent an e-mail to some friends and they didn't bother to reply. Granted, I could call but it is much cheaper and convinient to send an e-mail rather than sms or giving a ring.
I also hate when I send e-cards and I receive the notification that it has been viewed and my friends don't bother to say: Thanks! Not that I send e-cards because I want to be thanked but I think it is a matter of politeness...Anyway, have a nice day!
Hey Monica,
thank you for your interesting explanation. I think I find it hard at times to get the personal out and 'think business'. Yes, you are so right: I do care and most of the time I don't mind doing someone a favour [= a personal package deal] but if they treat me like a disposable then the least they could do is tell me that I have been binned, right? ... ;)
I guess since I make them a good deal thus be kind to them I expect the same kindness in return and so from now on that is absolutely not too much to ask for *hehe* Thanks Monica, hug back at ya!
Hi Wendy, welcome back! I think some people find it very easy to take things for granted. I personally can't be bothered to continue communication if that would be the case. I can be patient and I too can be late and slow in responding but ignoring would be my final action as a result of... ;)
Yes it is definitely a matter of politeness and perhaps also a bit of setting your boundaries?
Have a beautiful day too!
With talk of hits and ads, I was curious why bikinis were checking out your quest (I was only there 30 seconds at most - really)